Maybe the most frequent and hated option-cecks around the net are on that flash-player-update-webpage. Anyway, the come before downloading the installer - that makes it maybe tricky. The checks would have to be taken off the webpage itself.
However, I saw, that you declined the request in the past, some years ago.
Given the fact, that millions of users encouter that problem every couple of days, this might be worth checking again?
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